Congrats,
I take my truck to the car wash and have a monthly plan. I've washed it at least once a week for 5 months and the truck is perfect, no issues or scratches.
Just make sure the car wash that you go to Uses good quality brushes.
When all this passes, (and it will) you will miss that cybertruck. But the new model Y is awesome. Either way you'll be fine.
I love my cybertruck, I just ignore all the hate and don't worry about it.
It's the settings in your phone, go to where you accept messages on your apps and find tesla. Click on to accept everything on the app, location, messages ect. I have the same phone.